British Expat Reveals Cultural Surprises After 16 Years in France: Beyond Language Barriers

British Expat Reflects on 16 Years of Cultural Adaptation in France

A British expatriate who moved to France 16 years ago has shared insights into the unexpected challenges of adapting to French culture. While initially focused on language acquisition, the expat soon discovered that cultural differences presented equally significant hurdles.

One of the most striking contrasts noted was the difference in drinking habits between the two countries. Unlike the UK’s pub-centric culture, drinking in France is typically integrated with meals and conversation. The French emphasis on savoring wine rather than consuming it in large quantities has led to a noticeable absence of public drunkenness, a common sight in many British towns and cities.

The expat also highlighted the French approach to dining, recounting their first experience of an extended dinner invitation. In France, meals are treated as social events with flowing conversation, and there is a greater appreciation for food flavors and smaller portion sizes. This stands in stark contrast to the often rushed mealtimes and larger portions typical in the UK.

Another cultural quirk that took some getting used to was the common practice of businesses closing on Mondays. While stores in the UK are generally open seven days a week, many French shops remain closed on Mondays and during lunchtime from 12 p.m. to 2 p.m.

Mastering the intricacies of the French language and social etiquette proved to be an ongoing challenge. The complexity of using “vous” and “tu” correctly in different social contexts was particularly daunting, although the expat noted that occasional mix-ups were often forgiven due to their foreign accent. Adapting to greeting customs like “la bise” and remembering to say “bonjour” as a sign of good manners were also important aspects of cultural integration.

One positive aspect of French culture that the expat highlighted was the politeness of children. The cultural expectation for well-behaved children in public spaces and their use of formal greetings and manners was a source of pride for the expat parent.

As the expat’s experience demonstrates, moving to a new country involves much more than simply learning the language. It requires a willingness to embrace and adapt to a new way of life, with all its surprises and challenges.